Happy Rosh Hashanah from Highland Park Patch

A few years ago, my parents were pulling out of their driveway to head to syagogue on Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish new year, when they heard a thud. 

They looked beneath the car and saw my dad had run over one of our cats. Ordinarily pretty unsympathetic towards the animals my mom took it upon herself to care for, my dad was adament about getting this cat to the animal emergency room.

"I can't have this on my conscience going into the new year," he told my mom. 

So they took the cat to the vet, where her broken back was set. My mom spent the next few months moving the cat onto her litter box and towards her food and water bowl, and soon she was totally healed.

And my dad was relieved.

The high holy days are upon us -- the Jewish new year began on Sunday evening and Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement, begins next Tuesday. Though I'm not a religious person, I do get something out of this time, during which my family turns their minds (and nudges me to do the same) to things they've done in the past year, things they wish they'd done and things they'd still like to do.

Most importantly, they think about things they'd like to do better, and things they wish they hadn't done at all. Yom Kippur is all about atoning, about putting yourself in other people's shoes and thinking about how things you've done have affected those around you. 

And while the last thing I want to do is use the High Holy Days as an opportunity to get preachy, I do feel compelled to say that I hope Patch readers will use this time for the same sort of meditation. There's been a lot happening in Highland Park the past few weeks. Tragedy struck earlier this month, when a car crash left three injured and one 5-year-old dead. It also left two families reeling and the whole community wondering how this could happen.

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